
About Therapy
Therapy will look different for each individual, couple or family that I work with. There isn’t a wrong way to do therapy, so long as you are moving towards the life and goals that you want for yourself.
HOW I WORK
Do you find yourself repeatedly questioning who you are and what you are doing? Are you left wondering why you feel so bad when so much of your life looks so good on the surface? Or maybe a new relationship is starting to show signs of problems you thought you escaped. I think about therapy as a place to manage these feelings, better understand where they come from and what they are telling us, all in the interest that the intensity of them may fade and/or we may move to act.
My clinical work focuses on identifying the repeating patterns that leave an individual or couple feeling stuck, trapped or dissatisfied with their life. As a psychodynamic therapist, I find that these patterns are often rooted in the visible and invisible messages our families, cultures and society at large as well as the different ways that our brains and bodies are wired. We will attempt to identify your underlying needs and challenge the obstacles that keep you from getting there. While with individuals I work primarily from a psychodynamic and relational perspective, where appropriate, I also blend other practical techniques into our work including elements of Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. With couples I work from the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) model that integrates our past experiences with our biological predispositions to help couples better care for each other.
Who I work with
I work with individuals, couples and families of various backgrounds and stages of life to help explore life challenges and make meaningful change.
I particularly enjoy working with:
People who are curious and introspective
People exploring questions of identity and meaning
People with a sense of humor
Individuals with ADHD
Athletes and other high performance individuals interested in exploring their relationship with their activity
Emotionally aware men
Families with adult children looking to form deeper connections
Couples who seem to find themselves locked in the same patterns and would like to work together to find new ways of engaging
People experiencing suicidal thoughts and self harm
Cats… unfortunately I don’t get too many inquiries from cats
Regardless of who I am working with, my goal is for you to be able to see and speak the deepest truths of yourself so that you may move with intention through the world.
